' We Don't Know What We've Been Missing Until It Arrives '

Assalamualaikum w.b.t  .....  

Good morning everybody ....

Sometimes we try to hold on to relationships that just aren't meant to last in our lives because we don't want to feel like we are going to lose out on the investment of our time, and the investment of all of the love that we gave to someone that we thought in our minds we would have around for a lifetime.

Instead of holding on to something that is only deteriorating your heart and mind, it might just be time to move on. Not because there something better out there for you than what you are experiencing in the moment, but also because you deserve to grow, and you deserve to live your life in a campaign for positive growth, in a positive environment.

Don't hold on to something that has already passed away, gather up the strength to let go and just move on...!!!

Life goes by in the blink of an eye. Appreciate the moments.

#cik suji : boleh bah kalo kau #  ^___^  

 "HAVE A PLEASENT DAY AHEAD " ...yeayyyyyyyy   .. 

Pagi yang Indah dan aku HAPPY

Assalammualaikum wbt......
Selamat pagi dunia................

Syukur Alhamdulillah msh lagi diberi kesempatan utk bernafas dan berbakti di bumi bertuah ciptaan Allah swt. Pagi nie rasa mcm happy sgt2,walaupun ambe tak pasti apa yg dihappykan (sounds weird right??)
Apa2pun hari nie ambe kene settlekan smua keje2 kt pejabat nie,,,minggu dpn kene handle ofis sorang2 (agak2 aku larat ke)..urmmmm...COBAAN ...huhuhuhhu...hopefully everything gonna be fine ..Amin
Kdg2 rasa penat plak membebel kt pesbuk tuh...hikhik..nampaknya blog la jadi mangsa ambe....hahahaha
Hidup biar sedap.....

Okey la ..nnt2  meng"update" lg blog nie dgn cerita2 fresh .... nak wat keje dulu.... kang ambe kene tembak dgn M16 plak kalo keje pending jerk...73% in progress ...  =)))))



~stay humble. never think you are not worthy. but do not think no one deserves you either.~

cik suji -  21/12/2012  @ 0737hrs

Gonna say bye2 2012

Assalamualaikum  wbt........

Waaaaaa...agak lame jugak dah x  update blog nie..sian kt blog ,dah berhabuk rupenyer(nasib baek ada febreze,,,pe kaitan??)..hehehehhee.... pejam celik  tak terasa plak tinggal beberapa hari jer lg kita nak  tinggalkan tahun 2012.... excited  plus cuak  jugak la ambe  nie...huhu.... korang plak cmner??..ape perasaan   nk mengadap  2013..... mesti semua bersemangat  giler punyer...ngeh ngeh ngeh......

Bagi aku la kan...sepanjang  2012 nie( walaupun blm  abes lg) byk perkara2 yg mencabar aku lalui...ape2 pon tu semua dugaan..... Allah swt xkan uji kita melebihi kemampuan kita kannnnn... =)))) ... so far,aku syukur sgt2 sebab  dgn izin dari NYA ,semua cabaran tu aku leh handle with care.... Alhamdulillah ....rasanya setakat ni je kot dulu...tunggu sambungannya diambang 2013 ...kehkehkeh ... really miss u my blog...  XOXO...I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be.... Salam....   =)))) bye2....

(ssedap2 update blog,tetiber jer tikus2 kt atas bumbung  belari2...ingat sukan komanwel ke??)

~oggy87@cik suji~

"Sketsa Kehidupan"

"Kesenangan yang datang tak akan selamanya
Begitulah selepas susah ada kesenangan
Seperti selepas malam datangnya siang
Oleh itu waktu senang jangan lupa daratan

Gunakan kesempatan untuk kebaikan
Sebelum segalanya terlepas dari genggaman
Kelak menyesal nanti tak berkesudahan
Apa guna sesalan hanya menekan jiwa

Jangan difikir derita akan berpanjangan
Kelak akan membawa putus asa pada tuhan
Ingatlah biasanya kabus tak berpanjangan
Setelah kabus berlalu pasti cerah kembali

Ujian adalah tarbiyah dari Allah
Apakah kita kan sabar ataupun sebaliknya
Kesenangan yang datang selepas kesusahan
Semuanya adalah nikmat dari tuhan"

ada kalanya apabila diri ini terasa kurang motivasi... akibat sesuatu halangan/dugaan yang datang tiba2..lagu ini menjadi penguat semangat.. banyak sebenarnya lagu yang lirik2nya baik untuk kita jadikan panduan dalam hidup...terpulang pada diri kita untuk buat pilihan....   ^_^

Dugaan Allah itu hebat ..

Alhamdulillah .. masih mampu mengawal akal dengan baik.. sesungguhnya dugaan Allah itu hebat, tak kira apa pun.. sama ada baik atau buruk.. kerana Dia sentiasa akan menguji kita..

Bila kita di duga... bersyukurlah, kerana Allah masih lagi memandang kita walau dalam keadaan begitu.. kita rasa teruk? tak adil? siapa kita kalau empunya segalanya milik Dia.. kita ada tempat mengadu bukan?

Apa guna melayan kesedihan itu bersama lagu cinta yang berunsur kecewa, kenapa tidak kembali pada Tuhan pencipta kita? kalau kita putus cinta katakan, bersyukurlah... sekurang-kurangnya kita tahu siapa dia. Mungkin ada yang sedia menanti kita... cuma kita tak tahu siapa..

Jodoh.. walau terpisah beribu batu sekalipun pasti bertemu juga... bak kata orang tua, ikan di laut.. asam di darat, dalam periuk bertemu juga. Begitu jugalah jodoh Allah.. pastikan cinta dan hati kita itu benar-benar untuk orang yang memahami apa ertinya cinta.. cinta kepada Allah, Rasul.. ibu bapa dan diri sendiri... tak perlu bersedih.. kuatkan semangat... hati adalah teman terbaik kita... pujuk lah hati.

THANKS

There are people that help others. Give advice and help others all the way till the end. They keep they're unknown secrets hidden from the world.
And speak wise words when they have never had experience.They just common sense. Some times everyone depends on them. And some times get into things they are not supposed to. But they just can't leave the people the care about hanging. So they do so for the sake of they're loved ones. But there's some times when this person can longer take humanity. Due to all the "classified" information they have to keep within. They start losing they're mind. And start to break down. People don't notice this cause they are too stubborn and are too carried away with their own problems. Some times. Even wisest of people have their limit. And it wouldn't hurt anyone to just say "Thanks".

Everything has beauty, u don't always need an eye to see it, sometimes just by closing ur eyes u can feel it :)

Promise Yourself

To be so strong that nothing

can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness, and prosperity

to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel

that there is something in them

To look at the sunny side of everything

and make your optimism come true.

To think only the best, to work only for the best,

and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others

as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past

and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times

and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself

that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear,

and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world,

not in loud words but great deeds.

To live in faith that the whole world is on your side

so long as you are true to the best that is in you.

START ALL OVER

Sometimes I get indulged with the idea of just leaving everything in my life behind and going somewhere where no one knows who I am. I’m curious about what it would be like to just let go of all my problems and to get away from all my mistakes, insecurities, and my past and just start all over. I want to see what I could do and accomplish and with a new beginning. I could finally be anyone I wanted to be without my old reputation holding me back. I would be able to meet new people while letting go of those who have hurt me and given me enough sadness to last a life time. And in a place where I haven’t made any mistakes or gotten hurt in yet, I think that taking risks would be so much easier.Sometimes I just want to be given that chance to try to live that life I always wanted, That chance to start all over again.

Isn't it crazy?

Isn't it crazy?
How people can be such cruel human beings. That the nicest people are the ones that are treated the worst. That the happiest people on the outside are really the most miserable on the inside. How you can walk past the people that used to mean the whole world to you. How strangers can become such great friends of yours. How great friends of yours can become such strangers.

Making someone your everything for them to leave, and now you have nothing. 


That when you finally start to be upfront to people and that is when they get pissed off and can’t comprehend how someone could be so cold to their face. That when you finally start telling people how you are really feeling and they sit in shock like they can’t believe it.

Isn’t it crazy how the only time people that struggle with problems get noticed are when something bad happens? How ONE person can’t just give them a smile while walking down the street to save them. How in one minute everything can change. 

Life seems to move so fast now a days, I don’t even know what day it is most times. 
Understanding who real friends are and who aren’t. I’ve coined the term “frienemies.” Because that is all people are now. They’ll leave you and turn on you in an instant. 

Isn’t it crazy how life seemed so magical when we were growing up? How now that we are grown ups we all wish we could take back those wishes. How we can waste so much time on the wrong person and miss out on the right person. How the easiest things are usually the hardest. That saying things is easier than DOING things. 

People seem to want to play with your emotions a lot. 

Isn’t it crazy, this thing called Life is?...urmm...my  mind  stuck in the middle..  gosh

FRIENDSHIP

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you're down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend hold your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end. (^_^)

"BACKSTABBER"

hye2...

mesti korang  penah jumpe spesis "BACKSTABBER"  nie..apatah lagi kwn rapat kiter sendiri yg besikap mcm tu...aku pun tak tau la nk  ckp cmner lg pasal spesis nie...aku rse tu je kot  keje seharian dier...dok memburuk2kan kengkawan  sekeliling  pinggang...pastu  melaga2kan org sampai  huru hara hubungan org len..padahal kalo tgok rupe  mmg sah org ckp dier nie ayu ,lemah lembut etc..haaha..padahal hati mcm ape ntah....uisssshhhh  masak aku  ngan org mcm nie.....dah kira ok ler  tu aku x gi  tanya ko terus terang...sbb aku mengenangkan  ko kwn aku ...padahal dlm hati aku nie meronta2 jer nk maki hamun ko...hahaha...

Tapi bila aku fikir balik,  apela yg  aku dpt kalo wat ko mcm tu kan...kalo gaji aku makin naik xpela  gak..hahaha....ape2 pun  yg  penting, aku dah tau ko spesis kwn yg mcm mne...dpn aku jer ko ckp manis, baik smue...tp belakang aku ko sebar fitnah kt semorang....aku rse malas da nak kawan ngan org mcm ko..wat semak friendlist  kt hati aku jer...hahaa...

Aku harapsatu hari nnt ko ubah la sikap suka sgt nk melaga2kan org  tu..x elok tau...satu lagi aku nk pesan kt ko, ko jgn la suke sgt buka aib kisah org lain....aku rse ko pun arif psl agama(tengok dr status fb) hehe..sendiri mau ingat la yerrrr......

~Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say.~oggy87~

Everyone you meet will make an impact in your life

HATERS- try to ruin your rep without even knowing you, thus making you stronger and relize that you just can't give a s**t about them and they will eventually stop.

BULLIES- They know you. They hurt you. Made you cry. Some cases cut. Some people commit suicide. You just need to learn to walk away and not let them bother you, even if it's as hard as anything you've ever done. It makes you stronger. 

DOUCHES- They lead you on. Make you cry. Make you stronger.

FAKE FRIENDS- Pretend to care. Then you find out their dirty little secret. It makes you stronger.

FRIENDS- Some friends you might not even know. But some tell you the most amazing things without you even meeting them. Some help you and some are just there. But friends are the ones that (even if you don't know them that well) build up your confidence for you just to call them friends. 

BEST FRIENDS- Help you when your down. Make you stronger. They love you. You can trust them. 

BOYFRIENDS/GIRLFRIENDS/HUSBAND/WIFE- Build you up. Break you down. It makes you stronger. If your not ment to be, your not. It's not your destiny to be with that person. Accept that. Don't cry. Say thanks for making you stronger. 
FAMILY- The best relationship you will EVER have. They won't leave you. Family builds you up. Family is a reflection of actual love.

PEOPLE WHO DON'T GIVE A FU*K- Learn from them. Best decision you will ever make.

The point here is that you learn from every single person you meet. BY them making a huge impact on your life, saving your life, or just learning a simple fact from them. People teach you everything you know. Appreciate EVERY person you meet... (^_^) .. oggy87

Haru Biru

Assalamualaikum ....salam sejahtera....

Chewaahh mcm nak berpidato plak aku...hihi...03.01.2012 adalah hari yg paling busy skali dlm hidup aku.....x pernah plak aku wat keje sampai x sedar nak makan tghri..no wonder la perut aku berdangdut sakan......tapi aku sebenarnyer suke membusykan diri dgn keje...sekurang2 nyer aku xdela teringat sangat dgn kisah2 cdey..hihi....member sepejabat pun okey...sentiasa bg kerjasama...cuma kekadang jer la meragam....hahahah

Tapi, itulah fitrah manusia yg aku kene terima kan...aku pun mengaku , yang aku nie spesis "berangin" jgak..hihi..kdg2 tu kesian la kt sape2 yg jadi mangsa "angin: aku tu...(sorry tau)..hihi..kdg2 aku rase aku kejam jer...sadis la plak kan...hehe....

Hidup nie kalo xde masam manis mmg tak syok la kot...sbb tulah kiter kene letak rencah2 utk sesuatu perhubungan..mcm kiter masak gak...smue bahan kene ade baru la sedapppp...pergghhh..hahaha..ape2 pon aku sayang ngan smue..mulut aku jer kejam...tapi hati aku suci jer mcm produk safi...hehe...

cukupla kot luahan hati utk hari nie...hehe...al-maklumlah,xde teman berbual..kt blog nie jer la aku meluahkan perasaan...blog nie pun seolah2 mengerti.... harap2 smue sentiasa sukses... Amin

-Aku Happy Jer-

To Whoever Reads This

It doesn’t take long in our lives to figure out how tough life is. How much cruelty, violences, cynicism, and hatred is truly surrounding us in this world . And it’s easy to let the weight of the world get to finally bring us down and allow it to leave us broken, and to give in to the darkness that is seemingly impossible to ever avoid.

At some point of our lives, I think it’s fair to even say we just want to give up. At some point of our lives, we become ghosts of our former selfs. Those kids who had brilliant and unlimited dreams. Those kids who once believe they could do anything in the world. The kids who still believed in the good this world still had to offer.

And at some point of our lives, we find ourselves at war, battling demons from within who are committing torturous acts towards our spirits. We discover ‘flaws’ and beat ourselves up for it. We lose hope that things can get better and sadly, we tragically give up on ourselves…thinking we’re not good enough.

But if you’re reading this, then just don’t give up on yourself and everything just yet. Hold on to the fact that you can do anything, so believe in yourself and never let anything stop you. Don’t let the demons win and bow down to depression and anguish, because you’re beautiful in every single way possible and stop thinking you have flaws, because you don’t. And don’t give in to the darkness this world has, because as much as there is so much malicious things in this world, sometime you just stop a moment to see how much beauty still lies in this world. That you and this world is worth never giving up on.... ^_^

What Scares You?

Day in and day out, we wake up and put on a brave face when in reality, aren’t we all scared of something? I mean, isn’t this fear that we try so hard to hide what stops us from living life to the fullest or halts us even when we’re tempted to take risks. 

What are you afraid of? Could it be as fictitious such as the monsters that linger under your bed or the ghosts that come to haunt you like those in horror movies. Or could your fears stem from experience, where you’re terrified that people always leave or that you would not be able to withstand the brutality of your heart shattering again. Maybe you’re terrified that you won’t ever find the one or be able to do all the things that you have dreamt to do. Are you frightened of death, needles, graveyards, or heights? It’s even possible that your biggest fear is that person you see in the mirror everyday…scared that the demons you have caged up will one day find their way out.

So what scares you? And if you’re able to answer this, then just know that we’re all scared of something whether we’re willing to admit it or not. That no matter what it is that you’re scared of it, to never let it hold you back. It’s scary and ironic to think that one day we will realize that it was our fears that stopped us from living life to the fullest. 

Life Should be easy right....